Michael F. Strong

Man Spots His Own Grave in Local Cemetery

I guess this was a case akin to Ebenezer Scrooge, in Dickens “A Christmas Carole,” only when this 75-year-old man from Britain saw his own gravestone in a local cemetery – there was not a spirit in sight!

Alan Hattel said he was worried by the fact nobody had phoned him in three or four months, and couldn’t figure out why. Now he believes people think he died – and wants them to know the truth. He blames his ex-wife for putting the gravestone there, though admits he cannot be certain. Alan, 75, a pensioner from Forfar, Tayside, said, “My phone hasn’t rung for three or four months. I’ve been confused by it all but now I know why nobody has been calling. I don’t even want to be buried – I plan to be cremated.”

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Speaking to the London Daily Metro, as he was being photographed beside his headstone, Hattel declared, “I’m still alive.” He then echoed Mark Twain’s famous words, saying “the reports of his death had been greatly exaggerated.”

Hattel said he had realized something was not right because his social life has been deathly quiet for the past three or four months. The headstone was erected at Newmonthill Cemetery in Forfar. He says it was done without his knowledge and the whole thing was “like something out of [popular British sitcom] ‘Only Fools and Horses’.”

He has also spoken to Angus Council officials and plans to put a cover over the headstone which bears his name. The 75-year-old, who spent 37 years as a welder before retiring, claimed his ex-wife has bought the plot of land and put up the headstone with the intention of them being buried together.

Both their names appear on the headstone. “I’ve never, ever said I wanted to be buried alongside my ex-wife,” said Hattel, who has two grown-up children with his former spouse.

“We’ve been separated 26 years and there’s no animosity but I’m struggling to take it all in. To find out you have a gravestone in a cemetery while you are still alive isn’t something that happens every day.”

A family member at Mrs. Hattel’s home said, “This is a family matter being dealt with privately.” Angus Council said it was unable to discuss the issue or disclose any information about who purchased the plot.


How would you react if you saw your own grave? Please reply in the comments below.

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    I have a picture of the same thing!! My mom and dad have their names on the headstone, and since I was named after my mom, many people I graduated with thought it was me who died!! Some people probably still think that!!